tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post1727917878932238692..comments2023-05-20T10:17:50.472-04:00Comments on Bella's Butterfly Kisses: My RealityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-78976187785507343142012-05-05T16:31:51.525-04:002012-05-05T16:31:51.525-04:00Hi Marisa, always thinking of you and the struggle...Hi Marisa, always thinking of you and the struggles you face each day. A friend of mine recently posted this poem as she lost her mother suddenly and I thought I would share the link with you hoping it brings you some comfort. Hugs Always...Josie<br /><br />http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/548966_264981900260287_169356106489534_573920_2003906400_n.jpgJosie DiMarcohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17974573290851222276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-24158356632453722542012-05-05T10:09:01.438-04:002012-05-05T10:09:01.438-04:00I take "breaks" all the time. It is neve...I take "breaks" all the time. It is never a real break as I never stop thinking of Gavin and I know it's the same for you. Sometimes you need to walk away for a bit and try to not get so deep in to your grief. I wish I could change all of our lives. I wish our babies could come back for not a moment but forever. I hate this club and wish there were no members. I am thinking of you xoxo.BellaStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08129157299412942108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-65561350589150971762012-04-19T11:03:47.879-04:002012-04-19T11:03:47.879-04:00I wish I could take some of your pain a way. I wis...I wish I could take some of your pain a way. I wish I could make things different. All I can do is be here for you, to listen, to support, to love.Lucynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-38104659482101141502012-04-17T22:23:10.827-04:002012-04-17T22:23:10.827-04:00Susan & Michelle, I know that you can understa...Susan & Michelle, I know that you can understand the way that I feel. The longing to be someone else for a moment. <br /><br />Anonymous, thank you for the kind words. I hope that you are right and that she is dreaming of me right now.marisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17945247463329704602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-15449838237514232542012-04-17T17:52:03.247-04:002012-04-17T17:52:03.247-04:00If I was granted one wish, I wish I could change y...If I was granted one wish, I wish I could change your reality. But try to comfort in knowing that isabella is up in heaven, a happy little 2 1/2 year old with her mommies beautiful long curly hair, big bold eyes and a smile that goes on forever and just as pleasant and chattery as her mommy is with the biggest heart ever. I'm positive that she has soooo many friends in heaven and at night she settles down and dreams about mommy and daddy just like you do of her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-36810047602873668292012-04-17T12:58:03.749-04:002012-04-17T12:58:03.749-04:00I have really slowed on my posts as well, sometime...I have really slowed on my posts as well, sometimes we just need to take a step back.I am always keeping you and Isabella in my heart. xomichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07960223886511130664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1954417541943065830.post-48769527453229893362012-04-17T01:39:56.097-04:002012-04-17T01:39:56.097-04:00I remember writing a post like this - I was lookin...I remember writing a post like this - I was looking for it for you, but I have written so much on my blog, I can't find it. How depressing is that? I need an index :)<br /><br />I think it said, I just want a day off from this all - just a few hours break, and then I'll be fit to go - to carry on again The funny thing is, I remember feeling this too in the period after my boyfriend died - I wanted to check into a hotel - and for the grief to stop - understanding that I would have to go back and deal with it later - but just for now I needed a "grief holiday".<br /><br />The thing about it is, it just goes on for so long. You need such amazing stamina to keep going. All the times I've felt this, have always been as things started to improve. I know it's not easier that Bella is gone - but it has always hit me at the time when you start to pull your life together, accept that you have to build a different way forward. <br /><br />Keep going Marisa - the dead mothers club gets that you need to be away for a while - and we get why - and we're also here whenever you want to talk too. Big hug to you xxSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08189847375191755096noreply@blogger.com